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If your child is constantly “on,” it can feel like you’re living in crisis mode—running, jumping, and pushing every limit. But this isn’t misbehavior; it’s dysregulation. Today, I’ll show you how to use movement, sensory input, and co-regulation to bring the nervous system back into balance. These calming techniques for hyperactivity are grounded in Regulation First Parenting™—because when we Regulate → Connect → Correct™,* everything finally starts to click.
Why does my hyperactive child seem “always on,” and how is that different from high energy?
High-energy kids can shift gears when asked; clinically hyperactive kids struggle to stop or transition. The issue isn’t motivation—it’s self-regulation. Behavior is communication from an overwhelmed nervous system.
- Look for transitions: trouble starting/stopping is a key clue.
- Expect impulsivity: acting before thinking isn’t intentional defiance.
- Start with regulation: structure first, correction second (Regulate. Connect. Correct.™).
What are fast, science-backed calming techniques for hyperactivity I can use today?
Movement + mindfulness balance an overstimulated system. Kids need frequent sensory “resets,” then brief, coached calm.
- Micro-breaks: 30–90 seconds of wall pushes, chair push-ups, or hallway “heavy work.”
- Scheduled sprints: jumping jacks between subjects; carry supplies to another room.
- Mindful downshifts: 4–6 breathing, hum to extend exhale, quiet music, dim lights.
Could diet, sleep, or stress be making hyperactivity worse?
Yes. Blood sugar swings, additives, and poor sleep dysregulate the nervous system and spike activity and reactivity.
- Protein + healthy fats at each meal; reduce ultra-processed carbs.
- Protect sleep: same bedtime, dark, cool room, screens off 60 minutes before.
- Magnesium matters: low levels can fuel dysregulation (talk to your provider).
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How do we handle school when behavior is overshadowing learning?
Smart kids can still fall behind when dysregulated. Build a predictable structure and team up with teachers.
- Planned movement breaks and sensory jobs (carry/organize).
- Specific praise: “You paused and raised your hand—nice self-control.”
- One skill at a time: teach how to stop-start, then practice in short reps.
Scenario: Your child blurts in class. Teacher adds a silent cue + 60-second heavy-work pass. You reinforce “wait to speak” at home with a 3-step practice and immediate praise.
My partner and I disagree—is this willful or dysregulation?
Inconsistency at home fuels chaos. Unified, calm responses reduce power struggles fast.
- Pre-plan: same routines, same micro-breaks, same praise cues.
- Get support: structured programs (e.g., BrainBehaviorReset®) help families reset patterns.
🗣️ “Structure, routine, movement breaks, and positive reinforcement are game-changers for hyperactive kids—let’s calm the brain first.”
— Dr. Roseann
Calm the Brain First, Connection Follows
Hyperactivity isn’t a character flaw—it’s a regulation challenge. With consistent structure, sensory movement, and smarter nutrition/sleep, kids build real self-control. You’re not alone. Let’s Regulate. Connect. Correct.™ For next steps, explore this: heal a dysregulated nervous system guide.
FAQs: Calming Techniques for Hyperactivity
Do rewards “bribe” my child?
No. Specific and immediate reinforcement helps wire the right habits.
Can diet really change hyperactivity?
Many families see quick wins by stabilizing blood sugar and removing triggers.
What’s one quick calm-down I can teach today?
4–6 breathing: inhale 4, exhale 6, repeat 5 times.
Not sure where to start?
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